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I know more than a couple of working gals ....

Seems to me they are getting pretty desperate .. I have always thrown some baht their way .. never mind ..

The demands I have gotten the last month or so are ridiculous  ... demands ?  WTF .. f**k you ..

Jeez .. don't look at a gift horse in the mouth and try to f**k him in the ass at the same time ... lol ..

Some of the gals are beyond any redemption... beautiful .. for  sure ,, but worthless .. they always expect some one to take care of them ... wtf .. where did this attitude even start ?

Get up .. stand up on your own 2 feet is what I think . it you cannot take care of yourself then don't expect being taken care of from others ..... lol ...

 

 

 

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Desperate times and all. 

When you're used to putting in very little effort for maximum results, its difficult when you suddenly need to shift gears. 

All of a sudden those good looks and long legs mean fcuk all without any johns to pay for spreading them. 

Can't be easy for many of them right now. 

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2 minutes ago, Esco said:

Desperate times and all. 

When you're used to putting in very little effort for maximum results, its difficult when you suddenly need to shift gears. 

All of a sudden those good looks and long legs mean fcuk all without any johns to pay for spreading them. 

Can't be easy for many of them right now. 

Yea Bro .. you are right ... but, I think life is what you make it .. so no pitty from me .. I try to help everyone .. but, enough is enough especially when someone tries to demand .. f**k you !

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1 hour ago, code_slayer_bkk said:

Yea Bro .. you are right ... but, I think life is what you make it .. so no pitty from me .. I try to help everyone .. but, enough is enough especially when someone tries to demand .. f**k you !

Absolutely bang on sir 

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6 hours ago, Nightcrawler said:

I bet you not half as bored as I am in the UK

A chance of being hassled by bar girls would be a fine thing 😀

Just on one my "rants" again .. that is all .. I sure don't know why I have been "ranting" so much lately ...

Bro ... LOL .. LOL .. you got me there .. bored ... LOL .. LOL ...

 

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8 hours ago, Esco said:

Desperate times and all. 

When you're used to putting in very little effort for maximum results, its difficult when you suddenly need to shift gears. 

All of a sudden those good looks and long legs mean fcuk all without any johns to pay for spreading them. 

Can't be easy for many of them right now. 

Yea .. I agree .. but, I still have no pity ... you make your own bed .. that is exactly what they try to feed off '' your pity for them" and their long legs ... ( LOL  ) ....

Jeez .. I have been hit up by gals I haven't talked to in years ... surprised they even remember my phone number .. I say the same thing to all of them .. "maybe you should have thought hard and twice before you threw you drama at me ... I cannot help you " .. then they start ranting at me again .. f**k off ...

How can you help a person that doesn't help themselves ?  A mystery to me ....

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3 hours ago, code_slayer_bkk said:

Yea .. I agree .. but, I still have no pity ... you make your own bed .. that is exactly what they try to feed off '' your pity for them" and their long legs ... ( LOL  ) ....

Jeez .. I have been hit up by gals I haven't talked to in years ... surprised they even remember my phone number .. I say the same thing to all of them .. "maybe you should have thought hard and twice before you threw you drama at me ... I cannot help you " .. then they start ranting at me again .. f**k off ...

How can you help a person that doesn't help themselves ?  A mystery to me ....

I bet their black books are the size of the old phone books lol. 

 'Now where did I leave good ol code slayer's number?? He must have a baht or 2 he can miss" 

 

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Bored?  flippin right.  I am doing 3 peoples jobs trying to keep afloat and watching some people sitting back doing the usual hands in the air thing with the "not my fault" attitude  either that or head sin the sand.

I dont remember ever being so tired as I am now,  exhaustion for sure.  I grab a grandad nap when poss but some days, not ime even for that.  my little team is working its derrieres off to do a good job but some we we deal with are turning into sharks.  decision made.  yes I am bored and pissed off but we will come thru this, and those who were with us will always be the stars to me, those who are trying to screw our balls to the wall will be treated as termites once this is over but, for now, its knob swallowing ( means bite your tongue).

Bored? frustrated?  seriously at the end of the tether?  yes x 3

 

sorry for rant

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Bored her also.

The place i live has always been a quiete beach town, and I choose it for that.

But now with zero tourists, 80% of the bars and restaurants have closed and the open ones are deserted..

Add to that that I am attacking my 4th year here, and for somebody who has always been.on the move it's becoming very monotonous.

And the Miss feels the same, it doesn't help !

But I know that I cant really complain, millions of people are much worse off.

 

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37 minutes ago, Thai Spice said:

Bored her also.

The place i live has always been a quiete beach town, and I choose it for that.

But now with zero tourists, 80% of the bars and restaurants have closed and the open ones are deserted..

Add to that that I am attacking my 4th year here, and for somebody who has always been.on the move it's becoming very monotonous.

And the Miss feels the same, it doesn't help !

But I know that I cant really complain, millions of people are much worse off.

 

i too have lived all over the world but year 12 hear or 13 and still dont regret it.  settled to the life here and reached the phase where you accept what happens and find a work around.  no more wanderlust for me I think.  but i do have far to much to keep me busy to even think about monotony 

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1 hour ago, tommy dee said:

Bored?  flippin right.  I am doing 3 peoples jobs trying to keep afloat and watching some people sitting back doing the usual hands in the air thing with the "not my fault" attitude  either that or head sin the sand.

I dont remember ever being so tired as I am now,  exhaustion for sure.  I grab a grandad nap when poss but some days, not ime even for that.  my little team is working its derrieres off to do a good job but some we we deal with are turning into sharks.  decision made.  yes I am bored and pissed off but we will come thru this, and those who were with us will always be the stars to me, those who are trying to screw our balls to the wall will be treated as termites once this is over but, for now, its knob swallowing ( means bite your tongue).

Bored? frustrated?  seriously at the end of the tether?  yes x 3

 

sorry for rant

Rant away Bro ..  I will always listen .. we all have our days now and then ... !

Keep plugging away ... don't ever give up ...

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4 minutes ago, tommy dee said:

i too have lived all over the world but year 12 hear or 13 and still dont regret it.  settled to the life here and reached the phase where you accept what happens and find a work around.  no more wanderlust for me I think.  but i do have far to much to keep me busy to even think about monotony 

Agreed. But I know  I have a problem with accepting aging, which is a part of the issue.

Another part is being retired.

There are moments, where I am thinking "So, this is it now ? I am going to live like this, gently waiting to die ?" 

Its not a bad life, but I struggle accepting it. 

A social circle of mates is difficult, mainly because most retirees are Aussies  and lets say that culturally we have nothing in common.

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2 minutes ago, tommy dee said:

i too have lived all over the world but year 12 hear or 13 and still dont regret it.  settled to the life here and reached the phase where you accept what happens and find a work around.  no more wanderlust for me I think.  but i do have far to much to keep me busy to even think about monotony 

Yea .. me also ... only back home to Brooklyn a couple of times in the last 35 years ..

I get a little break away from the sea and the peaceful quite life I live with Beach gal and Ziggy ... which I would never change ... but, more often that not I get a "itch" I need to scratch ...

I always go back to BKK ( I have flat there ) once a month for a couple of meetings with the hospital group ... usually spend a couple of hours with them ... but, I hang out for a week here ... get a belly full of beer and whatever else comes along ...

I need action .. period ... my whole life I have been constantly on the go ... 

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6 minutes ago, Thai Spice said:

Agreed. But I know  I have a problem with accepting aging, which is a part of the issue.

Another part is being retired.

There are moments, where I am thinking "So, this is it now ? I am going to live like this, gently waiting to die ?" 

Its not a bad life, but I struggle accepting it. 

A social circle of mates is difficult, mainly because most retirees are Aussies  and lets say that culturally we have nothing in common.

Yea .. my social circle is Beach gals family ( they are super great ) ... plus, 6 - 8 good guys I have met in this forum ... and a couple of guys ( we are super - super close ) that I met in Marseille years ago that live here now in Kanchanaburi .... 

I am reluctant to meet any farangs at any bars . etc here in BKK .. most that I have met would "snitch" you out in a second .. I hate a fucking snitch ... seems most try to play themselves off as pretty good guys ...  I just stay from all of them ...  not saying they are all bad .. but, I won't waste my time ... better off alone .. can cause as much trouble as I want without looking over my shoulder ....

Not saying I have found the perfect balance yet ... but, I spend 3 weeks each month down in the deep South and a week here in BKK ... seems to work out pretty fucking good ... I have been doing this a long time ..... plus, I can get as wild as I want here in BKK ... I am slowly starting to get a little more responsible

I have a beautiful woman and fantastic daughter ... I can't f**k up to much now .... and not feel guilty about what I am doing .... I am trying ...

 

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4 hours ago, Thai Spice said:

Agreed. But I know  I have a problem with accepting aging, which is a part of the issue.

Another part is being retired.

There are moments, where I am thinking "So, this is it now ? I am going to live like this, gently waiting to die ?" 

Its not a bad life, but I struggle accepting it. 

A social circle of mates is difficult, mainly because most retirees are Aussies  and lets say that culturally we have nothing in common.

thats the key.  dont retire 🙂

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40 minutes ago, tommy dee said:

thats the key.  dont retire 🙂

f**k me ... I am serious .. no telling what kind of trouble I would end up in ... the only thing that has kept me out of trouble is banging code .... I can vent my wildness on a good piece of code .. 

I am not sure what I would do if I didn't have a challenge in front of me .... probably my wild ass would end up in another jam or 2 or 3 .... when I f**k up I do it big time .. lol

That is why I will keep on doing what I am doing .. as long as I breath ...

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Got to say guys it really sounds like a lot of you are not coping well.

Supposedly I am in the hell hole of the world with draconian lock down measures (if not in name) and yet I am as happy as a young lad in a sweet shop.

Ok the wife is away but at my age my lifestyle is such that I rely little on other people, my family are what makes me tick, my wife will be back in time for Christmas. Ok there are restrictions but as an amateur drinker the fact that pubs won't be able to offer booze from Friday has little impact on my life.  Shops are still open, schools are still open, I have a lovely house and my bank balance is acceptable to my quality of life.  I can travel around the country to visit beauty spots and this Christmas will be one of the best and it will only be me, Porn and Kataleya but I am really looking forward to it.

Maybe it is because I have always been an independent spirit and yet I do crave family life with the two lovely ladies.  I am not reliant on having to have the right sort of tourist around me to enjoy myself, my life is a little bit more fulfilled than that as physical social interaction is not a major issue.  I do have a great bunch of friends but they will be there when needed and when this pandemic fades.

Everybody here who seems depressed has a family so I would hope that support and togetherness should be enough to see boredom or depression a distant thing.  Ok if you are single or very alone at this time then I could appreciate the mental stresses but most of you have family so I assume the financial uncertainty can be a stress and lead to more than boredom.   I was on my own last Christmas, New Year and 3 months after before I saw my family yet I kept in touch and knew the future would be around the corner. 

Maybe I just cope with 'boredom' better than others. 

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58 minutes ago, Horizondave said:

Got to say guys it really sounds like a lot of you are not coping well.

Supposedly I am in the hell hole of the world with draconian lock down measures (if not in name) and yet I am as happy as a young lad in a sweet shop.

Ok the wife is away but at my age my lifestyle is such that I rely little on other people, my family are what makes me tick, my wife will be back in time for Christmas. Ok there are restrictions but as an amateur drinker the fact that pubs won't be able to offer booze from Friday has little impact on my life.  Shops are still open, schools are still open, I have a lovely house and my bank balance is acceptable to my quality of life.  I can travel around the country to visit beauty spots and this Christmas will be one of the best and it will only be me, Porn and Kataleya but I am really looking forward to it.

Maybe it is because I have always been an independent spirit and yet I do crave family life with the two lovely ladies.  I am not reliant on having to have the right sort of tourist around me to enjoy myself, my life is a little bit more fulfilled than that as physical social interaction is not a major issue.  I do have a great bunch of friends but they will be there when needed and when this pandemic fades.

Everybody here who seems depressed has a family so I would hope that support and togetherness should be enough to see boredom or depression a distant thing.  Ok if you are single or very alone at this time then I could appreciate the mental stresses but most of you have family so I assume the financial uncertainty can be a stress and lead to more than boredom.   I was on my own last Christmas, New Year and 3 months after before I saw my family yet I kept in touch and knew the future would be around the corner. 

Maybe I just cope with 'boredom' better than others. 

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I think there are different variations of boredom being discussed in this thread. 

Code is bored with slappers hitting him up for money. 

Tom is bored with people trying to take advantage of his business in this difficult time.

And finally Thai Spice is just plain bored.

in case you're wondering, I'm good and not bored one bit 🙂

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Keeping in touch with friends makes a difference. But living on my own, found being busy with stuff around the house helps and have accepted any IT type of contracts given my age is unlikely. 

My aim, was to travel and visit friends around the world. Not going to happen at least in the short term. One thing is I am comfortable on my own and pretty much do enjoy my own company. I think a sort of self discipline is essential to survive in most scenarios. 

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