forcebwithu Posted October 30, 2022 Share Posted October 30, 2022 3 hours ago, hugh cow said: I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but I would like others opinion. Having been a long retired monger due to the ravages of age and a good woman that gives me no need to stray, I have oft wondered the attraction of bar girls. Being still an occasional barfly who can enjoy the banter with the girls and as much as I can enjoy their company within the confines of the bar and if they are funny and entertaining I am happy to ply them with a few lady drinks for their trouble, but that is the end of it for me. IMO many are pretty average looking. Many are well tattoed but I accept what is a turn off for me maybe a turn on for others. I often see on Thai forums the cost of bar fines ST/LT, lady drinks etc. Being a frustrated retired engineer in costing projects It peaked my interest as to what a bar girl short time would cost all up. Having no current experience in this field, the following would be my estimate. Now this is predicated on someone, not a cheap Charlie but not overly generous either, intent on some drinking entertainment finishing with a happy ending. So would the following be unreasonable on a night of a bit of mongering entertainment? 5 X lady drinks say 750 baht. Bar fine 1500 baht S/T 1500 baht. Total 3750 baht. Now I just had a quick look at Smooci escorts and picked a lady at random that IMO had a nice body and was quite attractive and looked better than most bar girls I've seen and the price was the same (3750) for two hours. What am I missing here? In my youth it was the thrill of the hunt. Buying it removes that thrill either way, be it escort or bar girl. Is it just easier after a bellyful of alcohol to top it off with someone available, or the belief you've got to "know" her after buying her a few drinks? Or is it a drunken delusion that they would go back with you anyway after dazzling them with a few lady drinks and your amazing patter? The "bar fine" is just to get them released from their job temporarily and S/T money is just secondary, more like paying them to leave after your thirst for a little horizontal rhumba has been filled and your interest factor in them has now dropped to zero. Or have you deluded yourself (probably fatally) into thinking there was more there than a monetary transaction and this could be the future love of your life, whereas the Smooci escort you have to consciously pay for sex. There is no delusion of attraction. To me there is no right or wrong answer, I am just curious to others take on this. Rather than go OT on the go-go, bars topic created a new topic to reply to your post. Like you I enjoy drinks and a few games of pool or connect 4 with the bar girls, but rarely BF nowadays. One big reason is with the advancing years I find morning hours easier to enjoy a session in the room than a night time romp. So for me I get much better value for money spent with morning massages and finishing with FS. It takes some time, but I've found a couple of ladies that give both a great massage and a good root. Usual cost is 250-300 for the massage and 1000 to the lady for additional stress relief services. On the rare occasion I ST from a beer bar, or GC, I have at most 3 rounds of drinks with the lady, so 450 for LD's. BF is 400-500 and 1000-1500 to the lady. You mentioned a BF of 1500. As your post referred to beer bars, that's quite a bit higher than the norm. So probably knock 1000 off your final total of 3750. But then again comparing beer bar pricing and quality to an escort service is not a fair comparison. Perhaps go go pricing to an escort, in which case drinks and BF for a go go quality lady would probably exceed the cost of an escort. For myself, I've never used an escort service or social media like TF for a hook up as personality more than looks makes for a better time in the room. With all the filters in use, looks on a website or TF account can be deceiving, and there's no way to gauge personality. So I'll stick with the in person interview over drinks and a game of pool. 3 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteveBC Posted October 30, 2022 Share Posted October 30, 2022 2 minutes ago, forcebwithu said: I've never used an escort service or social media like TF for a hook up as personality more than looks makes for a better time in the room. With all the filters in use, looks on a website or TF account can be deceiving, and there's no way to gauge personality. So I'll stick with the in person interview over drinks and a game of pool. I 100% agree with that Force.... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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