Derek Dangleberries Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 6 hours ago, Nickrock said: My soon to be ex changed a lot in the last year we were together, long plan to suck as much cash of mine in to her thai accounts and assets Really, really sorry to hear that mate . I thought everything was solid back home and you had life sorted !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nickrock Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 2 hours ago, Derek Dangleberries said: Really, really sorry to hear that mate . I thought everything was solid back home and you had life sorted !!!! I have offered her 2.5m bt plus the 1m bt she owes me for her to sign a final and no further claim on my estate but she is holding out for 3.5 plus 1 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gs joe Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 You’re mate seems happy doing his own thing and letting her do hers , he might be giving her enough rope to hang herself , just a thought 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 25, 2023 Author Share Posted September 25, 2023 5 hours ago, gs joe said: You’re mate seems happy doing his own thing and letting her do hers , he might be giving her enough rope to hang herself , just a thought He's not that way inclined Joe. He dotes on her and using his own words " trusts her 1 million %". That could be a cover up of course. He may have thought deep down that somethings not right but if true he's kept it to himself. The problem is that we live in a small town and there are people here that know the truth. Not many but enough. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glasseye Posted September 26, 2023 Share Posted September 26, 2023 Sounds like you had/have some good mates. But, as we all know - "No good deed goes unpunished". Can often be the case, but I still prefer to do good by people. Some outcomes you just can't control, no matter how well intended. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zambo Posted September 26, 2023 Share Posted September 26, 2023 On 9/25/2023 at 7:47 AM, Aqualung said: It's not what she did in front of me and my wife Derek. She hasn't got the nerve to be so brazen. It's what she did out of eyesite Well that's it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 27, 2023 Author Share Posted September 27, 2023 Bit of an update on information gleened from my TW this evening. I'm not surprised by what she told me and just confirms that my Swedish mates wife is/ was up to no good. Apparently the young Syrian fella (24 years old), she is 43 BTW, didn't return to the party as she was expecting. Basically he f***d her off on the advice of the host and she was very upset. Upset to the point of visiting the doctor with depression yet again. Blah fucking blah!!!! More like upset because she didn't get what she wants. Roll back 4 weeks and her solo 7 day trip to Thailand to visit her family........ What a joke that was. Learned tonight that she originally wanted to go solo to Greece again but she was still in contact with the Kosovan fella from 3 years ago who agreed to travel to Turkey with her instead. That didn't happen despite him purchasing an air ticket because he expected her to book the hotel. So, she changed her mind and eventually did her 7 day trip home to Los. Alone I presume. So now she's depressed as hell because young Abdul has been warned off ( not entirely sure if true tbh)... She doesn't want to be alone despite being married and unhappy. She has her own successful business, a nice home and car and she has built her own house up in the north of Thailand. Seems to me this lass wants to have her cake and eat it big time. Selfish is an understatement. Can't lose her husband until she finds security with another guy. Like another poster alluded to... Give her enough rope and she will hang herself... To me she deserves everything she gets. 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forcebwithu Posted September 27, 2023 Share Posted September 27, 2023 If she really goes off the deep end your mate's life could be in danger. Best to warn him of what's going on. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumpuynarak Posted September 28, 2023 Share Posted September 28, 2023 36 minutes ago, Aqualung said: Bit of an update on information gleened from my TW this evening. I'm not surprised by what she told me and just confirms that my Swedish mates wife is/ was up to no good. Apparently the young Syrian fella (24 years old), she is 43 BTW, didn't return to the party as she was expecting. Basically he f***d her off on the advice of the host and she was very upset. Upset to the point of visiting the doctor with depression yet again. Blah fucking blah!!!! More like upset because she didn't get what she wants. Roll back 4 weeks and her solo 7 day trip to Thailand to visit her family........ What a joke that was. Learned tonight that she originally wanted to go solo to Greece again but she was still in contact with the Kosovan fella from 3 years ago who agreed to travel to Turkey with her instead. That didn't happen despite him purchasing an air ticket because he expected her to book the hotel. So, she changed her mind and eventually did her 7 day trip home to Los. Alone I presume. So now she's depressed as hell because young Abdul has been warned off ( not entirely sure if true tbh)... She doesn't want to be alone despite being married and unhappy. She has her own successful business, a nice home and car and she has built her own house up in the north of Thailand. Seems to me this lass wants to have her cake and eat it big time. Selfish is an understatement. Can't lose her husband until she finds security with another guy. Like another poster alluded to... Give her enough rope and she will hang herself... To me she deserves everything she gets. Tell your mate and hopefully he'll f*** her off big time, as disappointed and upset as he surely will be imo its the right decision, HTF could he ever trust her again ? Plenty of fish in the sea here in Thailand and some of them make lovely wives/partners, the just got to find the right one and it ain't that difficult imo 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 28, 2023 Author Share Posted September 28, 2023 34 minutes ago, forcebwithu said: If she really goes off the deep end your mate's life could be in danger. Best to warn him of what's going on. Im concerned about this post force... Can you elaborate please. As for now I'm saying nothing to him. I want to but can't right now. As for his wife I could make her life very uncomfortable. But where would that get me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 28, 2023 Author Share Posted September 28, 2023 12 minutes ago, Pumpuynarak said: Tell your mate and hopefully he'll f*** her off big time, as disappointed and upset as he surely will be imo its the right decision, HTF could he ever trust her again ? Plenty of fish in the sea here in Thailand and some of them make lovely wives/partners, the just got to find the right one and it ain't that difficult imo I agree pump. He's been had over by a Thai wife before. A gambler. He survived the tsunami whilst living in Ao nang so I'm sure he would survive losing that woman he's fawning over now. Still.... I'm not going to say anything at the moment as I have my own wife to think about. Friends and all that shit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forcebwithu Posted September 28, 2023 Share Posted September 28, 2023 3 minutes ago, Aqualung said: Im concerned about this post force... Can you elaborate please. As for now I'm saying nothing to him. I want to but can't right now. As for his wife I could make her life very uncomfortable. But where would that get me? How mentally stable is your mate's wife? I ask because you mentioned she's depressed and angry when not getting what she wants. In extreme cases a person may not act rationally, and thus the concern for your mate's health and longevity. 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 28, 2023 Author Share Posted September 28, 2023 16 minutes ago, forcebwithu said: How mentally stable is your mate's wife? I ask because you mentioned she's depressed and angry when not getting what she wants. In extreme cases a person may not act rationally, and thus the concern for your mate's health and longevity. To be honest she's only mentally unstable when things don't go her way. Basically she wants to feather her own nest before leaving my friend. That said, I'd think she would do herself more damage than she would to her husband. Seen a tick tock post from her tonight and crying out for attention tbh. Sad but true. And all crocodile tears from what I see. Pathetic little woman. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gs joe Posted September 28, 2023 Share Posted September 28, 2023 sounds like she is on self destruct and your mate is in denial , can’t be a pleasant atmosphere in that household, 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roomark Posted September 28, 2023 Share Posted September 28, 2023 19 hours ago, Aqualung said: To be honest she's only mentally unstable when things don't go her way. This is exactly right.... Won't do you any good dwelling on it . Tell him or don't. I don't waste my time with any of the Thai parties etc anymore and haven't for a long time .Too much drama and I'm not one to keep my mouth shut , which can be a bad trait. I'd rather stay away i've seen and heard some bad snidey shit within those circles Got my own life to lead which is hard enough 🤣🤣 Good luck lol 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 28, 2023 Author Share Posted September 28, 2023 3 minutes ago, roomark said: This is exactly right.... Won't do you any good dwelling on it . Tell him or don't. I don't waste my time with any of the Thai parties etc anymore and haven't for a long time .Too much drama and I'm not one to keep my mouth shut , which can be a bad trait. I'd rather stay away i've seen and heard some bad snidey shit within those circles Got my own life to lead which is hard enough 🤣🤣 Good luck lol It's my mates birthday next weekend lol! Hope he decides to come over to our place and leave his wife at home tbh. Otherwise it's over to his place and play dumb. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roomark Posted September 28, 2023 Share Posted September 28, 2023 8 minutes ago, Aqualung said: It's my mates birthday next weekend lol! Hope he decides to come over to our place and leave his wife at home tbh. Otherwise it's over to his place and play dumb. f**k playing dumb get some of that 7.5% Swedish beer inside you and tell the truth 😂🤣🤣 Oooops 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted September 28, 2023 Author Share Posted September 28, 2023 56 minutes ago, roomark said: f**k playing dumb get some of that 7.5% Swedish beer inside you and tell the truth 😂🤣🤣 Oooops Im building up to it starting this evening mate. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Aqualung Posted November 20, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted November 20, 2023 Well, what's happened has happened. Not proud of telling the truth for the first time in my life. But I was asked questions by my best mate here in Sweden and I always said to myself and my TW if I was asked directly what I thought was going on, I would tell him the truth through what I've seen. So 10 days later they are separating and I feel I'm responsible for that. A trial separation but in truth I know where that situation is heading. I don't know what's wrong with my Swedish mate, the evidence is in front of him and he still can't get into his head that his wife has cheated on him! And still is by all accounts. He thinks after a trial separation things will get back to normal. Me, I think different and she will continue her ways to feather her nest with whoever suits her. I guess at the end of the day you can give advice or not. Wether it's followed is a different story. Feel really sorry for my mate but he really needs to stop being nieve and get a grip on reality. 4 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom51red Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 Best thing for your mate to do now is forget about her and book himself some time in Los,back to the adventure in wonderland,back to the start. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derek Dangleberries Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 43 minutes ago, Phantom51red said: Best thing for your mate to do now is forget about her and book himself some time in Los,back to the adventure in wonderland,back to the start. Some people don't know how to move on though mate, whether it be bricks and mortar, bank balance or love.. 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gs joe Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 9 hours ago, Derek Dangleberries said: Some people don't know how to move on though mate, whether it be bricks and mortar, bank balance or love.. or sex she is probably a good ride , 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butch Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 It's for the best, as it was inevitable that she would leave him anyway. women are like monkeys, they won't let go of one branch until they've got a firm grip on another. Just a matter of time. He will be going through the curve of denial, blame, anger and then acceptance and hopefully self preservation. You did the right thing for him and for yourself. You will be the villain in the story for a long time, especially in her eyes and she may well go some way to poison your friends about you, or even your Mrs. Don't be in any doubt, you are , in her eyes, responsible for taking her nice little arrangement away from under her feet. It matters not, you absolutely did the right thing and you deserve a beer for it. 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqualung Posted November 21, 2023 Author Share Posted November 21, 2023 20 hours ago, Phantom51red said: Best thing for your mate to do now is forget about her and book himself some time in Los,back to the adventure in wonderland,back to the start. Im not saying his current relationship is doomed by the separation but it doesn't look good. They have built a new house up near Chaing Rai. He put some in but not much. And to be honest, after talking to him, I don't think Thailand is the place he will go next as its looking like he's married 2 Thais and both have/will fail.... So he's probably thinking of plan B. The Philippines and I don't blame him. Just hope he doesn't get married again. ( difficult in PH with an older separated lady). 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Aqualung Posted November 21, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted November 21, 2023 5 hours ago, Butch said: It's for the best, as it was inevitable that she would leave him anyway. women are like monkeys, they won't let go of one branch until they've got a firm grip on another. Just a matter of time. He will be going through the curve of denial, blame, anger and then acceptance and hopefully self preservation. You did the right thing for him and for yourself. You will be the villain in the story for a long time, especially in her eyes and she may well go some way to poison your friends about you, or even your Mrs. Don't be in any doubt, you are , in her eyes, responsible for taking her nice little arrangement away from under her feet. It matters not, you absolutely did the right thing and you deserve a beer for it. Cheers Butch. I feel like a right cnut at the moment and I'm well aware that I'll be subject to the Thai jungle drums banging. I really don't care about it tbh... As long as my wife understands and my mate feels the same way. He's not angry with me really as I'm sure he's still being in denial. He's a lovely chap but too naive. It's difficult enough to make good friends in Sweden, especially as me and him are the same age, like the same music etc, we have a lot in common. I don't really know what I will do if he resents what I've told him but the next few months will let me know the answer to that. Feck me! Thai women are hard work sometimes. They never think about the consequences of their actions and who it could affect regarding friends. And who is left hurting? You could drop an average looking Thai woman into a barrel of shit and she would still come up smelling of Roses. From what I've seen back in the UK and here in Sweden... Some of these girls are very very lucky and do not deserve what they have now. 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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